Your dating success depends on you learning how to be confident with girls. Being confident means you have an undying trust and belief in yourself or your abilities. If you don’t believe and trust in yourself, how do you expect her to trust and believe in you? Stick to these guidelines regarding what you should and should not do to be confident with girls:
Do’s
Mimicking
If you want to learn how to be confident with girls, mimic others who are already confident with girls. Choose a mentor. Think up anyone you know who is good at attracting girls or who is a "natural" and learn from him. Mirror everything that they do. Pay close attention to what you think will and will not work.
Doing “Man” Stuff
Learn MMA or work out at the gym. Going to the gym to work out will not only keep you healthy, but it also helps with your physical appearance, and both can help increase your confidence. Learning mixed martial arts automatically gives you the title of a fighter. And being able to fight has made guys more confident since the beginning of time
Dancing
Why do male dancers always get all the girls? It’s because they are confident! Dancing is a major form of self expression. If you can dance, you already have the edge over 90% of guys. If you're not good at dancing, take some lessons and watch your confidence skyrocket.
Music
Music is another channel for expressing yourself that can increase your confidence and have girls go crazy for you. Take a look at rock stars, rappers and Justin Bieber. 'Nuff said.
Practicing
Confidence is a result of practice. Becoming confident with girls will not occur right away but it will steadily develop if you practice at it the right way. And remember, confidence creates confidence. The more you are confident in one area of your life, the more it will carry over to other parts of your life. Practice confidence at all times.
What You Should Not Do
Complaining
No one enjoys hearing a guy whine and complain about all of his problems, and particularly not girls who are hot and in high demand. They have problems of their own. Whining and complaining shows her that you're definitely an unconfident amateur. Anytime there is a problem, be a man, take charge and instead of wasting time complaining, try to find a positive solution to make things better.
Calling Too Often
Calling her too much shows that you don't have anything more exciting to do with your time. Give her room to breathe. Consider this: If someone was calling you non-stop, would you consider that person is confident or irritating? Don't chase her, let her chase you.
Crying Out For Attention
People that demand attention are best described by one word: insecure. People who are confident do not need to brag, boast, show off or be loud and obnoxious about it. Confidence is a silent language that can be understood even without you having to say “Look here! I’m Confident!”
Giving Up
Those who give up or who aren't persistent enough often stop in the midst of trouble. Yet learning how to be confident with girls is characterized by trying and trying again until you make the improbable a reality. Always be looking at the bigger picture or your long term success. A rejection is not the end of the world. Regroup and try again later.
Making a Big Deal out of Small Things
Never make a bid deal out of small things or blow things out of proportion. If you do, it suggests a deep lack of confidence because if you can't handle the small things, you sure as hell can't handle the big things. Girls like guys who can handle the big things.
Learning how to be confident with girls is not difficult, but it does take time. Fortunately, since you know why and how to begin building confidence, you can get started right now! And remember, practice, practice, practice!
